Alyssa has always been very affectionate with humans. When we got a puppy she would hiss and growl at him but eventually she got okay with him and now he can sit there licking her and she doesn’t care. But anytime she’s around the two kittens she will sit there and growl. It’s been four months. It didn’t take this long with the puppy. She has lunges at the female kitten twice but never at the male. I’ve tried doing the through the door thing but she just growls and refuses to go near it
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Thanks for using PetCaoch! It’s not uncommon to hear about behavior like Alyssa. It can take a lot of time and patience for them to get along but here are some tips for decreasing stress for Alyssa in the short term.
-Feliway- calming cat pheromone- comes in many forms from pet stores or online.
- Adding a litter box. Studies show that the ideal number of litter boxes for a home is #of cats +1 . This is regardless of how clean you keep his current litter box.
- making sure she has plenty of “high space”. The safest (and therefore least anxiety-inducing) place for a cat is up. If you don’t already, get a cat tree or put up a shelf or two that she can go perch on.
Feeding them in separate rooms with two or three water bowls throughout the home is also a good idea as perceived competition for resources is a common problem in cats.
Best of luck to you and your kitties!
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